Every month in Sex at Our Age, award-winning senior sexpert Joan Price answers your questions about everything from loss of desire to solo sex and partner issues. Nothing is out of bounds! To send your questions directly to Joan, email sexpert seniorplanet.
I enjoy my vibrator, but I miss the feeling of skin on skin and the embrace of another body. I want to feel exciting and excited.
Sometimes I wish I could just have a man in bed for an afternoon when I want him, then have him go away. Is that sexist, treating a grown man like a boy toy?
I was brought up to see sex and love as part of the same package, preferably pointing to marriage. Is that even possible for women? How do I bring sex back into my life?
How would I even do that? You ask some great questions. Whatever works for two people mutually is much more important than any either-or rule. The right FWB might be closer than you think. Or they may be in a relationship founded on ethical non-monogamy. There are many reasons that people of our age want a sexual partner without a committed relationship. Maybe you already have the right friend, and just need to add the benefits!
You ask whether this kind of relationship is possible for women. Yes, for many women. Are you likely to get too emotionally involved, or is he?
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Emotions are tricky, and the best way to deal with whatever comes up is to communicate clearly before you get involved, during the involvement and My friend mature 52 years old if either of you needs to end it. She had a close friend who was also open to a sexual friendship without commitment, and some exploratory kissing showed them that they really were sexually attracted to each other. They talked about their needs, desires, expectations and boundaries, being careful to speak honestly and non-judgmentally, and to really listen to each other.
Their FWB relationship lasted two years. During that time they were friends first and foremost, and sexual partners as an added bonus. And show your partner that you value your health and his by always practicing safer sex.
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How to Maintain — or Regain! Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty. Seems many at this age range have similar problems, and finding a sexual partner seems allmost impossible. I really think society today is far too focused on the material world, and not the natural world.
You people work all dayand too tired to enjoy life at night.
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I am 74 years old and always been sexually active up until my wife got sick about 11 My friend mature 52 years old ago and we had a fantastic sex life but since then none at all. I am 64 years old and recently retired kids gone and feel lonely and forgotten. I dated the same guy over 25 yearsneither of us were interested in living together or marriage. He passed away and have been alone for over 7 years ……….
I miss being held and kissed and out and about doing fun things or at least a company keeper. I dont have a clue as to where to meet a guy over 60……………………………….
I am so glad that i ran across this web page. I am in that age group and wonder a lot about where my life is going now.
I hate to think that i have noting to look forward to anymore. But the idea of having a friend with benefits sounds good to me.
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Some how I missed the last 15 or 20 years of my life. While being busy raising my kids and getting them off to college, I loss my 10 year companion, whom I had plan to marry as soon as we both got the our children out of the house.
The time just got away. When i looked around I was shock to realize that i was just about 70 years old and not much to pick up and get on with. This friend started to stop by to check on My friend mature 52 years old some 20 years ago. He was what I consider my company keeper. We laugh, talked, cooked, took classes to together and even started a small business together. Things went well for the business for about 8 years. The bottom fall out from the economy and my family obligations forced me to let the business go.
Now that the kids are gone, parents are gone it is just me. What do I do with myself. I need that friend with benefits just to feel alive.
I hired a fella to do a couple of jobs that I need done, like me, he was retired and did handyman jobs to keep busy. I am 69 and he is 60, a perfect match!!
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I miss the physical contact for sexual release for both parties. I am very active and am looking for no commitment just meeting for mutual pleasure. Several lady friends are nearby bu they pretty much want work done for nothing so I avoid them! Each to there own. I class myself as a handyman and also looking for a FWB. Is it good for them? You just have to Go Do It. Make yourself available like you did when You were in your 20s! I like that Joan has created an informational presence as well as a forum for older adults to acknowledge or discuss sexual feelings.
Afterwards, we are always left with trading our time or emotions, or both, for other things needed to survive food, shelter and niceties thereof. We are always in pursuit of sex or survival, and if we are lucky, there are short times available to contemplate life or play seeking nothing but happiness and contentment.
Before, participants My friend mature 52 years old to act in ways that please, attract or seduce our partners. But, when our emotions and most private and vulnerable selves are at stake, the consequences of our actions can leave My friend mature 52 years old very unsatisfied much of the time.
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And when that happens, we tend to feel emotionally alone — which defies the objective of either sex or survival. Except that we always have expectations…and the biggest of them all is to live a wholly satisfying life in company with those who care about how we feel and best of all when there is that ONE that we each know with certainty cares and is there for us — and vice versa.
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In my case, next week, aged 65 and after 25 years of cohabiting, we celebrate. Meet mature Indian women interested in friendship. There are in life yet But now I want to get married to a person who is openminded and share similar. “We all mature — most of us — and this is the best time for anyone to “It's about undoing 35 years of thoughts, beliefs and truths that don't.